TIPS FOR YOUR HAPPINESS

Happiness is one of many valuable values we look for this life. Without happiness, our life in the word is like in the hell. Happiness is not gift. It is our right and struggle. We have to struggle, to keep good relation with God, mankind and nature in order to be happy.We have to struggle, to make the best choice, to receive or refuse, to forgive or forget, to leave or love someone. We have to struggle to be the creator of our own happiness. Happiness can be achieved through many ways. One of them is by making reflection and correction of our way of thinking toward problems of happiness. The reflection and correction can be based on an inspiration taken from a quotation.
If we do good thing for other people, we will get the best thing for our life and future. There is life after this life,.....life in heaven.........or hell. In order to enter life in heaven or hell, we will be judged........The final judge is based on what we have done for others. It is not based on what we possess. To do goodness for other people will make our life happy in this life and after this life. Heaven on earth is a choice we make. It is not just a place we must look for. heaven is also place for us after we die. We have to struggle in order to enter it. Religious people want happiness in this life and also after this life, in heaven with God.
Life in present time cannot be separated from life in the past. We are often unhappy,hopeless and so sad because of a failure. To grow and to be happy we must be optimistic to make the present time the key for our future and let by gone be gone. Just learn from yesterday and forget bad experience. Life is learning until the end of life. We never stop learning wisdom and happiness. We learn from family, teacher, friends and from experience. Good opportunity knocks but once. Let's always keep it and don't let it go. There is no opportunity without any challenge. We have to realize it and try to overcome it. Difficulty is a challenge but is also a bridge to learn to be better and to be happier.
Darkness is sometimes so scaring. We can't see thing clearly in it. We don't want to face it
longer. The sooner it is over the better. darkness can be compared to our loneliness and sadness. whenever we experience darkness, we don't need to be pessimistic. There is still an opportunity for the light to burn brighter. after darkness there will be brightness and happiness.
Our life will be meaningless, if we think only ourselves. We are considered selfish, if we don't care others. we are individual and also social creature. we have to do goodness as all religions teach us. Life that lived for others is a worth living, it will make our life meaningful and happy. We want to live happily almost every time, everyday. It is better to life simply to forgive and give much. Do the best as we can do. fill our life with love. another way to be happy is to keep our heart free from hate, to keep our mind from worry and to do the big thing.
adapted from J. Segara